If you aren’t watching the latest season of 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days you’re missing out on MESSY BEHAVIOUR.

Loren Allen, a 33 year old from Las Vegas, Nevada flew to The Philippines with just $46 USD, no job and couch surfing to meet his online boo Faith (whom he had never met in person prior to this trip.)

Did I mention he also has an STI and had to reveal that to Faith ON the show? Loren got an STD after sleeping with a friend during a Halloween party. Loren knew he had gonorrhoea before he went to Manila but waited until he was having a romantic moment with Faith to tell her he had been unfaithful.

But Loren been keeping more secrets than just his rocky relationship with Faith. Turns out, there’s a whole ex-wife situation he “forgot” to mention! According to reports from Starcasm, Loren was actually married before – and it’s more than a little messy.

Loren tied the knot with his first wife back on Halloween 2011 when he was just 21, and she was 19. By that point, the couple already had their first child, a daughter, and later welcomed a son. But by 2013, their marriage was over, with Loren’s ex filing for divorce. Since then, Loren hasn’t exactly painted a flattering picture of her, reportedly saying some pretty awful things about her over the years.

But here’s where things get even sketchier: Loren apparently hasn’t been paying his court-ordered $767 a month in child support. His ex-wife, in a video where she’s claiming to be broke, called him out on it, saying he can’t even buy his child a simple birthday cake. Meanwhile, Loren seems to be living it up and making excuses, all while talking about how broke his ex is. The kicker? Faith was totally blindsided when Loren told her he had no money, even though he supposedly had multiple jobs in addition to his drag assistant gig!

Is Loren Allen Trying to Dodge His Child Support?

So, is Loren just avoiding his responsibilities, or is there more to the story? According to Faith, he had two other jobs aside from working as a drag assistant, yet somehow couldn’t afford to pay rent. It’s also worth noting that Loren wanted to move to the Philippines with Faith while openly admitting he didn’t want a monogamous relationship. Sounds like a recipe for disaster, right?

Loren’s ex-wife hasn’t spilled all the tea on why their marriage ended, but his behavior towards his kids and the way he talks about his ex should be huge red flags for Faith. Honestly, she needs to think twice about sticking around in this situation.

Sources (Reddit) tell me that Faith and Loren are no longer an item and I am so happy for Faith.